I think we might see this list again and again, but updated!

*♥* THE LIST *♥*
Set date ✓ 21 Dec 2012
Set rough budget ✓ *cough* about the average price of a wedding in the UK 🙁
Pick church ✓ Odiham Church
Pick Venue ✓ Farnham Castle
Book church ✓
Book venue ✓
Choose bridesmaids ✓ Ruth (sister), Ellen & Alex (Uni friends)
Choose best man ✓ Mark (school friend)
Choose flowergirl(s) ✓ Stella (Uni friend) helping Jessica (school friends’ daughter)
Choose ringbearer ✓ Aaron (brother)
Choose ushers ✓ Paddy & Mike (school friends)
Choose sword party ✓ Not yet revealed. NB. Sword party for military wedding – see this video for an example
Choose colours ✓ Blue and Green. Thats a silver blue and a sage green. Both quite muted!
Decide on flowers ✓ Anemones, Sea Holly, Eucalyptus
Find a UK-grown florist ✓ But not yet decided prices!
Decide dress design ✓
Go dress shopping ✓
Modify dress design ✓
Decide bridesmaid styles ✓
Get about 1000 fabric swatches ✓
Decide on all dress fabrics ✓
Make toiles – 2/6
Order fabrics
Make dresses 0/6 (separate lists)
Make guest list(s) ✓
Decide save-the-date design ✓
Decide invitation design ✓
Make save-the-dates
Make invitations
Decide on wedding favours ✓
Decide on bridal party gifts
Decide church service designs
Make church services
Decide table names and name card designs
Make table names and name cards
Decide seating plan
Make seating plan
Choose a band
Choose a DJ ✓ included in venue
Choose menu
Choose a photographer
Choose table decorations ✓ included in venue (christmas decorations)
Choose church decorations ✓ included in church (christmas decorations)
Make wedding website on gettingmarried.co.uk ✓

Kim Debling is a Hampshire, UK based designer and Director of her own company Kestrel Design Ltd. She is mum to Rose and Harvey and wife to her best friend Steve.  She’s fighting off Stage 4 Lymphoma and sharing her story along the way, mainly via YouTube. Kim is passionate about being happy, mental wellbeing and in particular art and creative pursuits as therapy during tough times. She teaches online at Udemy, has published books and has art and printables available for sale.

The List was last modified: April 30th, 2015 by Kim Debling